I’ve come to realise that currency isn’t just money.

I’m talking about a different kind of currency—something you carry with you every day.

One of the most powerful currencies you own is your reputation.

We’re in a world that easily forgets core principles, and your reputation is on the line every day.

A strong reputation can open doors to trust, respect, and success.

By the end of this letter, you’ll understand two key things that are quietly damaging your reputation.

Plus, I’ll give you practical ways to handle each one. The second one is a huge reason people struggle in life.

You might be doing them without even noticing!

This is a wake-up call. No sugar-coating here.

1. Not Doing What You Said You Would

Let’s be real—most of us have made promises we didn’t keep.

You might think it’s small stuff, like saying you’ll meet someone at a certain time or help a colleague with a task. But when you don’t follow through, people lose faith in you.

I’ve been there too; the quickest way for me to feel low or disappointed with myself is to make a plan of action and then watch myself not follow through.

When you break promises, especially over and over again, people trust in you less.

Even if they don’t show it, they’re less likely to rely on you next time.

It’s like an emotional bank account—you get overdrawn fast if you keep taking and not giving back.

You’re not just hurting your reputation; you’re losing out on future opportunities. People start to become unsure if you’ll come through when it matters most.

How to combat this:

It’s simple but powerful: don’t commit if you’re unsure.

If you can’t do something or don’t want to, say so! Respect is better than temporary popularity. People will understand when you’re honest.

You may take a small hit at first, but the respect and trust you’ll earn will pay off.

It’s natural to want to say yes and please everyone. But broken promises damage your social value and drain your “reputation currency.”

Instead of gaining others' time, energy, and trust, you’re losing it.

Thought-provoking question: 

Where in your life are you making promises you know you won’t keep?

2. Not Being Brutally Honest About Consequences of our Actions

We live in a world that often celebrates the wrong things.

Things like unhealthy habits or chasing quick thrills over genuine growth.

The truth is, people admire someone who calls things out... especially when they call themselves out first.

Honest self-reflection and accountability are admirable traits. They shape how others view you too.

When you can acknowledge the truth, both for yourself and others, you gain respect.

It might feel tough or even uncomfortable, but people know when you’re giving them the hard truth.

How to combat this: 

Start with yourself. Be honest about your own actions and choices. Admit when you’re wrong or when a choice isn’t right for your growth.

Then, when it feels right, don’t shy away from giving others constructive advice.

Pointing out issues can actually strengthen your relationships over time.

Be careful not to disrespect anyone but be firm. There's definitely a way to say things without sugarcoating.

Honesty is rare today, but it’s priceless for building a solid reputation. People respect someone who’s real and willing to keep it straightforward... especially with themselves.

Do not compromise on this. If you are brutally honest with yourself, why not be the same towards your loved ones?

Thought-provoking question: 

How often do you find yourself avoiding the truth to keep others comfortable?

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Takeaway: 

Building a strong reputation isn’t about perfection. It’s about becoming someone who commands trust and respect... through consistent actions and honest words.